fix: unblock instanceable connectivity store-service install + clean up on delete

Live verification on pic1 of the connectivity v2 multi-instance feature
surfaced four integration bugs that prevented installing any published
connectivity store service (proxy/wireguard-ext/openvpn-client/sshuttle)
and left stale host routing state behind. All four are fixed here:

1. manifest_validator rejected the CI-published `name:tag@sha256:<digest>`
   image form (it required digest-only), while service_store_manager already
   accepted it — so every published store image failed validation. Allow an
   optional tag before the digest, matching service_store_manager.

2. The cell-api image shipped the docker CLI but not the Compose v2 plugin,
   so every `docker compose` ServiceComposer runs (pull/up/down for store
   services) failed with "'compose' is not a docker command". Copy the
   compose plugin binary from the docker-cli stage.

3. service_store_manager.install ran the base compose up for instanceable
   services, whose template still contains ${INSTANCE_ID}/${REDIRECT_PORT}
   (there is no base container — one runs per connection instance). It now
   verifies the image signature but defers the container to connection
   creation for instanceable manifests.

4. delete_connection freed the record/secrets/container but never removed the
   connection's individually-managed `ip rule fwmark->table` or its FORWARD
   kill-switch (apply_routes only flushes the PIC_CONNECTIVITY chains and
   re-adds rules for surviving connections), leaking stale host routing state.
   It now tears both down; added _remove_killswitch.

Verified end-to-end on pic1: two proxy instances allocate distinct
marks/tables/ports (skipping in-use resources), render distinct per-instance
containers, two peers route through distinct instances (per-peer MARK +
REDIRECT), delete is blocked while referenced (409) and cleans its ip rule.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

api/manifest_validator.py

@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@ _HOOK_BINARY_RE = re.compile(r'^[a-z][a-z0-9_-]{0,31}$')
 _CAP_NAME_RE = re.compile(r'^[A-Z_]+$')
 _ID_RE = re.compile(r'^[a-z][a-z0-9_-]{0,30}$')
 _IMAGE_DIGEST_RE = re.compile(
-    r'^git\.pic\.ngo/roof/[a-zA-Z0-9._/-]+@sha256:[0-9a-f]{64}$'
+    r'^git\.pic\.ngo/roof/[a-zA-Z0-9._/-]+(:[a-zA-Z0-9._-]+)?@sha256:[0-9a-f]{64}$'
 )
 
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